Silly Goose.

My second post of the day, and I was inspired by a certain comment I got. I'm not publishing it because here:- my blog, my rules, my decisions.

But if you read me, let me tell you this, if you're who I think you are, Ms. Mother Teresa who forgives all (but maybe me, but hell, like I care), I don't care what you think. Did you get that?

I don't care what you think.

If you think I am the reason **laughs out loud**, let me tell you something.

They have, and they always have had, a choice.

It's a decision they make. It's a decision they make, to forget their girlfriends, to lie. Men aren't automatically seduced. They have that option to climb into bed with somebody. The women they cheat with are not faultless, I agree. But the men? Look, they're the ones with the responsibilities, with the girlfriends, with the committments and the promises. If they fuck up, then, read this right,

It's a choice they made.
So direct your anger and blatant stupidity that way please.

I've known men to refuse women. I've known a selected handful who stay true. So if you know a cheater, snap out of your perfectly crafted excuse (oh you seduced him, oh but he really loves me, oh whatever....) and realise that he made that choice to cheat.

On that note, let me ask you all a coupla questions. Girls, would you stay with the man who:

1) started cheating on you the day he got re-aquainted with an old flame?
2) begged the girl he was cheating with repeatedly not to leave?
3) who made out with other girl in your father's car? The car you allowed him to use?
4) talked to you, lied to you infront of the other girl?
5) told the other girl he loved her (regardless of whether he meant it or not) and said he wished things were different so he could be with her. (regardless again, of whether he meant it or not)
6) met the other girl repeatedly, daily almost for 2 months, while you thought he was asleep in bed. See, cheater had brains - rendezvous only after midnight.
7) got caught cheating once, saw you cry a river, and then went back to cheating barely a week after?
8) brought other girl to places you two have been to?
9) wasn't even discrete with his cheating? Everybody knew but you.
10) cried when the other girl wanted to leave? (oh poor baby...)
11) slept with other girl.
12) made other girl quite the fool too, cos he knew she didn't think it was the odd cheating session and that it was something true.( gf, you should feel a bit better at this point, no?)
13) Got his friends to lie and back him up?
14) Spent his birthday with other girl?
15) Lied about a trip so he could spend the day with other girl, despite the fact his friends and maybe you had birthday plans for him?
16) and oh I'm sure there's more.
17) I forgot an important one, would you forgive the man, who months after, still attached to Ms. Mother Teresa, is seen making out with yet another woman at a certain club?


So ladies, would you forgive this? Cos I know I wouldn't. I'd sharpen my knives.

I know a disclaimer or explanation of some sort would help here. I could be the diplomat but you know what, screw that, say what you want.

You'll only gonna amuse me with your insults or rants.

=)